Buffy: Why Riley is not a nice jock
| March 13th, 2003Via the Supergeek comes this PopPolitics “roundtable” discussion of the current (and final) season of Buffy the Vampire Slayer. All the participants are enjoying season seven (although one of them is, like myself, profoundly bored with the Spike/Buffy relationship), so those of you in the “Buffy sucks why don’t they do the good season three stuff anymore?” crowd might not enjoy it. But I really enjoyed it - one of the most intelligent discussions of the current season I’ve seen, but not so rigorous that I can’t enjoy it when I’m half-asleep (like right now). :-)
Anyway, here’s round one; here’s round two; and here’s round three, which came out shortly after it was announced that this is the final season of Buffy.
Having said that, I’m going to ignore the substance of their discussion, instead going off on my own tangent. In round two, one of the participants says “Riley was a nice jock who never had a hope in hell of really understanding Buffy.”
Riley? A nice jock?
Really?
I disagree. By the time the character left the show, Riley had become a misogynistic jerk (not that I’m complaining; Riley’s misogyny and general creepiness was the most interesting thing about his character). In a way, season-five Riley was where Buffy writers began seriously examining misogyny among ordinary men, a theme that continued with the character of Warren in season six.
Consider how Riley starts his vampire habit; not with prostitutes, but by picking up attractive female vampires at bars. With at least one female vampire, Sandy (and maybe more we didn’t see), he flirted with her at a bar, went someplace private, and then…
Riley jerks in pain as Sandy bites him, then slowly he relaxes as she begins to drink. He closes his eyes and puts one hand on the back of her head.
Suddenly he thrusts her away forcefully. Shot of Sandy staring at him, then she crumbles to dust.
Shot of the stake in Riley’s hand. Pan up to his face. We see blood running down his neck from the bite marks. He looks a little shaken.
If his victims were human, we’d call Riley a serial killer.
Of course, she’s not human; she’s a vampire, demon, evil evil evil. But so what? Buffy’s behavior towards Spike in season six was wrong because cruelty, malice, and using other people without regard for what it does to them is inherently bad; and it is bad despite the fact that Spike the mass-murderer surely deserved all that suffering and worse.
Riley then switched over to prostitution, and the set design made it clear: Riley was not using happy, well-off callgirls a la Sam’s girlfriend in the first season of West Wing. He was exploiting what looked like the poorest, most miserable vampires imaginable; finding a “relationship” where he could pay a powerless woman to give him what he wanted, and all the while blaming it on his girlfriend for not opening up enough to him. To be attracted to that situation at all requires, I think, a fairly significant level of woman-hating.
I actually enjoyed this plotline - every character should have a dark side, and making the nice jock also a creepy misogynist certainly made the character more interesting. It was also compatable with what we had already seen of Riley’s character. Riley, after all, appears to be one of those guys who has no female friendships at all other than 1) his mother-figure and 2) his girlfriend. In general, guys who actually like women have some women friends who aren’t moms or lovers.
What bothered me is that some of season five’s writers - and in particular, Marti Noxon - seemed to take Riley’s side in the dispute: Buffy was in effect blamed for the end of the relationship and for Riley’s disgusting behavior. Remember, for instance, Xander’s speech to Buffy towards the end of “Into the Woods?“
But Riley has been holding back, in huge and significant ways (for instance, by not mentioning his habit of being sucked by vampires for pleasure). And insofar as Buffy has been unable to trust Riley entirely, that may simply show how sharp her instincts are.
Fortunately, Buffy also had some fairly impressive anti-misogynist episodes, such as “I Was Made to Love You” - a Jane Espenson scripted episode that, by ripping apart the “live for your boyfriend” ideology, played like a rebuttal to “Into the Woods.” (Unfortuately for my theory, Espenson seems to endorse the it’s-all-Buffy’s-fault interpretation in “Intervention,” but oh well.)

September 17th, 2007 at 4:46 pm
I realise this was posted a looong time ago, but I had to comment anyway.
I agree AND disagree with the comments in here. I agree with the fundimentals, basically. Riley was completely in the wrong and Buffy was the victim. What I disagree with is some of the details.
Riley did not go out and choose ‘helpless’ girls. He chose girls who could quite possibly kick his ass and who CHOSE to live a life where they were paid to suck people’s blood. Riley to them, as Buffy puts it “is a snack.” Basically they are getting paid to eat, so that they don’t have to kill in order to do so.
Not only this but the girl at the bar probably would have either turned Riley or killed him. I mean that part definitely felt like “Wow Riley, you’re a jerk.” but to say that he hates women based on the fact he got himself into a situation he shouldn’t have (for a variety of reasons) is a bit of a stretch.
I dislike the way they portrayed Xander, as well, however. I can understand where he’s coming from on one end, realising that Buffy will regret it if she lets Riley leave. However I dislike the way they worded things, and his stance. I felt, as well, he was telling Buffy that it was her fault and it was up to her to make things right.
I think what I disliked most about the episode was at the end when Riley leaves. You know he’s GOING to leave, but the way they set it up. You in one way feel like Buffy should have left earlier, when really Riley should have realised that giving her an ultimadum like that is just being an asshole. I couldn’t believe he actually left like that. Out of everything he did, I think that was the worst.
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September 17th, 2007 at 6:09 pm
As far as it goes, I never liked Riley. I thought the vampire thing was dumb and manufactured drama. I guess after the mega-angst of Angel they didn’t think buffy could have a relationship end because he’s dull.
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