I agree AND disagree with the comments in here. I agree with the fundimentals, basically. Riley was completely in the wrong and Buffy was the victim. What I disagree with is some of the details.

Riley did not go out and choose ‘helpless’ girls. He chose girls who could quite possibly kick his ass and who CHOSE to live a life where they were paid to suck people’s blood. Riley to them, as Buffy puts it “is a snack.” Basically they are getting paid to eat, so that they don’t have to kill in order to do so.

Not only this but the girl at the bar probably would have either turned Riley or killed him. I mean that part definitely felt like “Wow Riley, you’re a jerk.” but to say that he hates women based on the fact he got himself into a situation he shouldn’t have (for a variety of reasons) is a bit of a stretch.

I dislike the way they portrayed Xander, as well, however. I can understand where he’s coming from on one end, realising that Buffy will regret it if she lets Riley leave. However I dislike the way they worded things, and his stance. I felt, as well, he was telling Buffy that it was her fault and it was up to her to make things right.

I think what I disliked most about the episode was at the end when Riley leaves. You know he’s GOING to leave, but the way they set it up. You in one way feel like Buffy should have left earlier, when really Riley should have realised that giving her an ultimadum like that is just being an asshole. I couldn’t believe he actually left like that. Out of everything he did, I think that was the worst.